Dear Lord, It's been years of separation, and i've prayed for this man, my daughter's father to stop disrespecting me. When you are young everybody makes mistakes, i have apologized to this man, but he has never once said he was sorry for none of the things that he did to me and my daughter. It's like he's too proud to beg, or ask for forgiveness, but yet all of a sudden many years later now he wants to be in the grandchildrens life, and he think he can come to the house and not speak to me. Why, whatever his issues are, he did it to hisself, I don't hate the man, but i can't take his totally disrespect. I'm just asking the saints of God to pray that this man, wakes up and smell the coffee, get over the past and make the best of the future, we have grandchildren that two are almost grown, and two that are still small and they don't understand why their grandfather don't speak to me. My daughter and I have never, ever sit down and had a meal with this man. Ok, for real, you ask him do he wants some coffee, or water, or soda, or something to eat and he has always said no. I'm over it, he left me, many years ago, for other women, it's the choice he made and it did not turn out good for him. I moved on married someone else, got divorce, we might have gotten back together, it was signs, but he never ever did anything for me, no flowers, no candy, no dinner, no lunch, come on. Why would i go back to someone who can spend money and wine and dine other women, but me. He thought i was just going to come back to him, after what he did to me, no apologize from him ever. He can be friends with all the tramps that has messed over him, left him, really dogged him, but he can't speak to me. So i am very upset, i don't really wish him bad luck or nothing like that. Marc, act like he's too good to be around me and speak to me and treat me like a human being. Until he can respect me, i don't want him at my house. If he is angry, be angry at his self, not me, he made his choices and i've lived with it, so he should. He's so jeaousl of me, it's unbelievable, he realize what he could have had, what he lost, and he didn't come back at me the right way. He's 64, i'm 60, it's never too late to say i'm sorry, but he is subborn as the devil.