God of love and mercy, I hold my father up to you in prayer. Since the separation/divorce, it hasn't been the same. There's less fighting and stress, but there's more distance. Please help us grow closer. He hasn't always been perfect but he is my father and I want to have a role in his life, just as much as I want him to have a role in mine. If it is your will, let me be of some help to him. Free my heart from all anger and assigning blame. Just let me love and care the way I can, at this time. Heal whatever got wounded in him and allow him to grow and to thrive again, in your merciful love.